{"id":133,"date":"2023-01-03T19:13:11","date_gmt":"2023-01-03T19:13:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pensive-hamilton.217-160-247-238.plesk.page\/?p=133"},"modified":"2023-01-03T19:14:24","modified_gmt":"2023-01-03T19:14:24","slug":"cand-fata-noastra-ne-da-de-gol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pensive-hamilton.217-160-247-238.plesk.page\/index.php\/2023\/01\/03\/cand-fata-noastra-ne-da-de-gol\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd fa\u021ba noastr\u0103 ne d\u0103 de gol"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00ce\u021bi sun\u0103 familiar aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie: Te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti cu o persoan\u0103 care este foarte entuziasmat\u0103 de job-ul ei, de felul cum se \u00een\u021belege cu colegii de serviciu sau de ofertele de training excep\u021bionale &#8211; dar totu\u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2i sceptic? De ce oare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Motivul pentru care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta, este c\u0103 expresia facial\u0103 nu se potrive\u0219te deloc cu ceea ce \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi transmit\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 acest lucru este valabil pentru o singur\u0103 milisecund\u0103. \u00cen limbajul tehnic, acest lucru se nume\u0219te <strong>&#8220;comunicare non-verbal\u0103&#8221;<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu c\u00e2t \u00een\u021belegi mai bine comunicarea non-verbal\u0103, cu at\u00e2t \u00eel \u00een\u021belegi mai bine pe interlocutorul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acest articol voi demonstra c\u0103 dezvoltarea abilit\u0103\u021bilor conversa\u021bionale, de exemplu comunicarea \u201dverbal\u0103\u201d, nu este suficient\u0103, ci trebuie s\u0103 lucr\u0103m \u0219i la comunicarea non-verbal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fa\u021ba noastr\u0103 poate genera p\u00e2n\u0103 la <strong>7000 de expresii faciale diferite.<\/strong> Aceasta se poate numi un depozit de comunicare non-verbal\u0103 \u201dascuns\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu ajutorul caracteristicilor noastre faciale, transmitem semnale \u00een mod continuu celor din jurul nostru. Totu\u0219i comunicarea verbal\u0103 \u0219i non-verbal\u0103 nu coincide \u00eentotdeauna, ceea ce rezult\u0103 nesiguran\u021b\u0103 sau ne\u00een\u021belegere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cei care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 expresiile faciale \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 comunice mai eficient. Cele patru stiluri comportamentale &#8211; dominant, influent, stabil \u0219i con\u0219tiincios &#8211; pot fi recunoscute \u00een tr\u0103s\u0103turile faciale caracteristice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acest exemplu v\u0103 ar\u0103t\u0103m cum s\u0103 identifica\u021bi <strong>stilul comportamental dominant \u0219i stabil<\/strong> pe fa\u021ba celuilalt:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Dominant<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/persolog.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2016\/08\/Faces-D-man-282x300.png\" alt=\"Faces D man\" class=\"wp-image-2014\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Oamenilor cu stil comportamental dominant le place s\u0103 fie deaspura lucrurilor, ei tind s\u0103 \u00eei controleze pe al\u021bii. Mai mult de at\u00e2t, ei sunt foarte competitivi \u0219i ner\u0103bd\u0103tori s\u0103 mute obstacolele din calea lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceste tendin\u021be de baz\u0103 sunt accentuate de expresii faciale tipice: riduri verticale \u00eentre spr\u00e2ncene, buzele \u00eenchise sunt caracteristice oamenilor cu tendin\u021be dominante. Adesea, tr\u0103s\u0103turile acestea sunt exprimate \u0219i prin spr\u00e2ncene ridicate sau privire a\u021bintit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"2\">\n<li><strong>Stabil<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii cu stil comportamental stabil \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei complimenteze pe al\u021bii \u0219i sper\u0103 s\u0103 fie l\u0103uda\u021bi. Ei sunt capabili s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 dificult\u0103\u021bile \u00een avans \u0219i de multe ori cred c\u0103 rezisten\u021ba este inutil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/persolog.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2016\/08\/Faces-S-woman-284x300.png\" alt=\"Faces S woman\" class=\"wp-image-2015\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Liniile u\u0219oare, orizontale de pe frunte sunt caracteristice oamenilor stabili. Col\u0163urile interioare ale ochilor lor tind s\u0103 fie ridicate \u015fi atente, spr\u00e2ncenele lor cu toate acestea nu se mi\u015fc\u0103 deloc. Ochii z\u00e2mbitori, dar anxio\u015fi accentueaz\u0103 \u00een plus comportamentul stabil. Buzele u\u015for presate cu col\u0163urile gurii pu\u021bin ridicate sunt indicatori suplimentari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fie c\u0103 este vorba despre o discu\u0163ie de v\u00e2nz\u0103ri sau o conversa\u0163ie de recrutare: pentru o mai bun\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegere, semnalele incon\u015ftiente transmise de interlocutorul t\u0103u pot fi esen\u021biale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De aceea e important s\u0103 fii atent at\u00e2t la mesajul verbal transmis de interlocutorul t\u0103u, c\u00e2t \u0219i la expresia facial\u0103. Cum se exprim\u0103 \u015fi cum se comport\u0103? Care dintre tendin\u0163ele de baz\u0103 le po\u0163i identifica pe fe\u0163ele lor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u0163i, de exemplu, s\u0103 observi riduri verticale sau orizontale pe fruntea lor? Astfel po\u0163i ob\u0163ine o impresie mai obiectiv\u0103, ceea ce te ajut\u0103 apoi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i ajustezi comportamentul corespunz\u0103tor. Comunicarea poate fi ghidat\u0103 astfel spre orice direc\u0163ie dorit\u0103.&nbsp;\u00ce\u0163i dorim mult spor \u00een aplicarea sfaturilor noastre!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>echipa persolog<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i mai multe despre comunicarea non-verbal\u0103? Cite\u0219te&nbsp;cartea <a href=\"http:\/\/persolog.ro\/abcul-personalitatii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>ABC-ul Personalit\u0103\u021bii<\/strong><\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00ce\u021bi sun\u0103 familiar aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie: Te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti cu o persoan\u0103 care este foarte entuziasmat\u0103 de job-ul ei, de felul cum se \u00een\u021belege cu colegii de serviciu sau de ofertele de training excep\u021bionale &#8211; dar totu\u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2i sceptic? De ce oare? 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